Registered: Aug 2000
Location: Scotland
Posts: 22

Old Woman / New Woman

After leaving uni in April, I haven't dated or even pulled until about 3 weeks ago. her name is Pauline, and I'm dating her.

Its's not serious, but I like her and I don't want to hurt her.

The problem is, on Monday, my next door neighbour introduced me to her Friend, Jacquie. Now she is HOT..I mean, super-hot. Tall, and long blonde hair (I usually go for brown or red heads) and I think she likes me. And I know I like her. But of course, I am only speculating that she likes me, while I know my girlfriend, who is nice, but not anything stunning does like me. But I am not looking for anything long term at the moment.

I have 3 options:

1) Stay with my girlfriend, and just admire Jacquie from a distance.
2) Dump my girlfriend, and try go for Jacquie, even though it might not work out.
3) Have both of them at the same time, with the hope that niether will find out. Jacquie knows I have a girlfriend, but I don't know how she will feel if I still date Pauline. I could probably easily have a one night stand with her, but I do like her and would like to have something a bit more with her (but nothing too serious as I said).

What do I do?

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The Human Experiment

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Registered: Aug 2000
Location: 54.60°N 5.70°W
Posts: 1950

If you are leaving your current geographical location when you leave Uni, then dump the girlfriend and go for the new chick. Nothing to loose. On the other hand, if you are stayign where you are and you want things to work out with the current chick, then just admire this new one from a distance and don't be such a fuck.

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I gave myself to sin, I gave myself to providence,
And I've been there and back again, the state that I am in ...

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Registered: Aug 2000
Location: GA
Posts: 6953

do whatever you want, as long as your honest with everyone involved

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Registered: Jul 2000
Location: Australia
Posts: 470

in my experience youre screwed if you do, and screwed if you dont

not alot of help am i?

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please dont touch me

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