Oracular_Jinx
Contents under pressure
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Lat: 43° 42' 0 N, Long: 79° 34' 0 W
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Yeah... and I was with a lot of them... and they were useless, and uncaring. They would drag people into this cult-like world, and make them afraid to go anywhere else. What kind of "family" threatens you, makes up insane stories due to boredom, stab you in the back, etc?
I know you're right, and they're not all lazy people. But I'm reminded of a lot of things I went through... maybe not the sob stories you hear from them, but the flip side of what was going on. My family was searching for me frantically for weeks. They handed out posters, and spoke with kids who were panning etc. I was never told until about a month later, a girl came up to me, handed me the poster, and said they were looking for me. Not a "you should call them" nor a "run like hell", but just giving me the heads up to make my own choice.
Time and time again you will hear of abusive households, of terrible parents, or uncaring families, but you're only hearing one side. I assure you that the longer you're out there, the more horrific these stories become. It may start as verbal abuse and end in "I was sexually abused by my father." This never happened in my case, but it wasn't uncommon to have a sort of competition to see who was worse off.
The troubled youth centre I used to go to for five-cent soup never even TOLD me my family was looking for me. I don't care if it was to protect me or not, either way they should have let me know. They could have said it the same impartial way as I was told.
As far as the chicken/beef thing goes, it's sadly true. If you're hungry, you're not picky. The number of hostels, etc. are phenominal. Why on earth would you bother getting a job when you get free blankets, free meals, and don't have to deal with taxes or "society"?
I think instead of making more shelters, we should get rid of them. Put in a work program instead.
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