kauaigirl
Spongemonkey
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: the 45th Parallel
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I had the Fortune/Misfortune of attending 9 schools in 12 years... I never noticed if they were singling (now that word looks like it's spelled wrong...)me out for being in the "Academically Advanced" classes... 'cause they were already singling me out for being "the new kid"... endlessly....
being in with the 'freaks' in jr. high (I took that as an honor, considering where I was for half of jr. high... ) required doing as little as possible, and avoiding as much attention as possible, while still getting better than average grades, so they WOULDN'T notice you...
Bad grades = parent/teacher conference ... worse than being picked on!
but the schools I attended for 11th & 12th in Hong Kong & the Philippines respectively seemed to be more in tune with getting you ready for the working world, than ready to dangle your participles or square a root... academics was first, no doubt, but differing cultures, the business world, teamwork, tolerance, etc. were more in the front lines... which gave you a sense that they felt your were ALL intelligent and capable beings, just untrained and not yet guided... so we all, even us blunt puffing freaks, WANTED to excel in competition with ourselves, more than competing with those around us, who then became allies in being the best you could be... which works really well... and when you get to vote in class on such things as whether your fellow students can smoke their cigarrettes in class instead of waiting for "the Bell" ... ( a 'yes' vote came with the aggreement that you would sit by the window... very democratic of them.. since I smoked back in the day...) i.e., when you treat young adults like young adults, the lines between them begin to mesh and blend and disappear completely at times... at least that was my experience...
I think getting 'picked' on in school is just the animal in us looking for the proverbial 'pecking order'... mostly a man thing ( just one woman's opinion), but women can and do play too.... and it seems to peak in those lovely, hateful years known as "JUNIOR HIGH".... just as breasts begin to come into 'play' (pun intended...) and testosterone levels begin to cloud the minds of young males... and a few semi-females...
and i don't want mean mail from the semi-females out there...
jeeezzz Louise....
"Don't hate me because I'm MENSA..." annonymous 2%-er
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