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I've never met anyone as in touch with her own internal states.
*love and support for Phorbie*

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A nice piece of writing there, Phorbs. One minor correction though:

"I know there is no knight for me, no communion, no true love no magical connection to be made no person like that exists for me"

The above sentence is patently false.

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You think so? Do knights exist? And magical connections? Other halves. Split souls. I think she's right. But not alone.

Phorbs,
I've lived in a marriage I could not fix. Sometimes, there really is no way to go back. No way to change them, or change yourself to make things fit. Brush out the tangles. Bleach the stains. Wipe up the blood. Scars over scars. I really don't know what to say. Be strong as always. Breathe.

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There is no Mr Right; there are thousands of them. So yeah, it's false.

The bright side is that now you can have Mug-lovin, puddinhead. Come to the Frozen North and help me paint the state Red Yer the woman my grandmother prayed for.

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I drank up my relationship. Just as well, I reckon.

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Yer the woman my grandmother prayed for.

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...I know there is no knight for me, no communion, no true love no magical connection to be made no person like that exists for me, ive figured that for a loong time, surely and if they did I’m old and damaged now and above all else my children take priority,...

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My patina looks and smells a good deal like mildew.

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ty for the generous graciousness in the replies.

we are moving forward with the divorce as of this morning. Its best for everyone and best to do while the children are young.
Life will be extremely uncomfortable for a while but it builds character.

To Simon, what you said is fair and just, but a woman with children isn’t exactly prime dating material, that is what I meant. Not that I’m interested in dating atm anyway so it doesn’t really matter. And I’m a work in progress, always will be. Surely.

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from Dr Phil............. " it's better for children to come from a broken home than to live in one "

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well done

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Your tough,I think.
You'll pull thru,Phorbes.

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You think so? Do knights exist?

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About a thousand lurkers right now are saying to themselves"Phorbes is free?"

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4b, no sarcasm, no jabs.

So long as you see yourself as "old and damaged", there can be no room inside for you to accomodate any "knight". I don't know you, and I know Splat even less, but I do know how people work, reasonably well.

We are, or become, what we tell ourselves we are. Age need not damage; it can instead add a fine patina and increase the value.

You cannot change anyone but yourself, and that change will not be postive if what you tell yourself is not. Conscious, deliberate change of your own internal dialogue is not easy, nor is it a magical fix for anything. It takes a lot of effort, which I am quite certain you can apply. It will, in the end, repay the effort many-fold.

Good luck.

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but a woman with children isn’t exactly prime dating material, that is what I meant.

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Just wait and see,Phorbes. Do your thing with the munskins and your job and just live day by day. Men will find you even when you don't want them. You'll have to fight them off and shit.

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I think it's strange that so many of you chose 4b's moment of pain to come out of the closet.

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I've been seduced by her boobs, my weakness is plain.

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Sorry to hear about the divorce, though of course you've known there were problems for some time. I do wish the best for you, you deserve it.

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"Feminism encourages women to leave their husbands, kill their children, practice witchcraft, destroy capitalism and become lesbians." - 1992 GOP Convention

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I've been seduced by her boobs, my weakness is plain.

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