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Is it possible that man who claims he isnt gay to be ok with just getting head from dudes if that is the only sexual thing he does with guys and really not be gay?

He isnt sexually attracted to men, he doesnt kiss them or fuck them (aside from their mouth) and he has never been buggered.

could it just be a deviant power thing? or is he likely gay and not come to terms with it?

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3rd option: he likes to have sex with men because its easier

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I agree with Hawley.

Men are weird. It doesn't always fit into a nice sexuality binary. Remember, this is a gender that has been known to occasionally have sex with livestock.

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Is it possible that man who claims he isnt gay to be ok with just getting head from dudes if that is the only sexual thing he does with guys and really not be gay?

He isnt sexually attracted to men, he doesnt kiss them or fuck them (aside from their mouth) and he has never been buggered.

could it just be a deviant power thing? or is he likely gay and not come to terms with it?

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n.b. I'm not comparing being teh ghey to being into having sex with livestock.

My point is there's usually not much point in getting hung up on "Gay? Yes/No". Sexuality is way too fluid to be pinned down into such easy classifications sometimes.

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actually, with out hanging any prejudice to the word, he would be considered homosexual or gay by the definition. or atleast the activity would be. It appears they have broadened the definition from being attracted sexually to the same sex, to also just engaging in sexual activity with the same sex.

I just looked it up and thats why I think the definition has been broadened, which blows my whole, " I dont think a man who fucks a tranny is gay if the reason he fucked the tranny was because it looked like a woman." all to hell.

I do see what you guys are saying, that opportunity to spill your man seed can be just that, spilling your seed whether its in a dirty sock, a cantaloupe, a sheeps ass or some gay dudes mouth.

Im dating a guy who has received head from dudes on three different occasions, he is a pretty good looking and fit guy and I can see why the ghey bois would be falling all over themselves, and I admire that he was so honest about it when I know it was hard for him, however, I dont want to invest much in this relationship if he is gay and not come to terms with it or is with me because he thinks Im tom boyish enough to appeal to his favored sexual hungers and its easier to bring me around his family than some gay guy, just so in a year or two he decides he would rather pursue that alternative life style. Im getting old and junk. He does comment on how feminine and sexy he finds me, and he is always ready to go (fuck me) Im just a little paranoid I guess and guys who are hiding their true sexuality are usually great actors and can lie fantastically and continually for long periods of time. Im not in the mood for another thespian.


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and he is always ready to go (fuck me) Im just a little paranoid

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Originally posted by Hawley Griffin
not keen on surprise buttsekz?

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You could always dump 'im and have sex with me.

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If a guy who is the roommate of a guy that glanced at another guy who grooms the dog of a chick that lives with a guy that thought he saw an old high school friend that might think "Gay Eye fo the Straight Guy" to be a cool show, I'd kill him. For god.

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my honest, not fucking with you because it's you posting, advice is... if it happened once, it's just something that happened, a heat of the moment/opportunity thing. if it happened twice, then maybe he just happened to be in the right place again. but three times says he's actively seeking it out. and if he's as good looking as you think he is, he shouldn't be that hard up to find a loose pretty girl who'd do it for him just as easily as a guy.

no matter what he's telling you, he likes it, and probably for more than the idea of sexual power. even if that is the case, that'd spell out some deep shit that maybe you don't want to be around your kids anyway. *shrugs* you know the situation better than we do, just going on what you posted.

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Copy/Paste your blowjob post. That is all any of us really want to hear from you; honest injun.

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actually, with out hanging any prejudice to the word, he would be considered homosexual or gay by the definition.

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I think that you shouldn't read too much into all this,forbes,cause it's like....he could have lied to you.
He was straight honest about it all. But then there's the "What if you fall for him and one day you catch him botty bopping your brother or some shit?"
I say life's full of up's and down's. Life is too short NOT to give it a whirl.

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Well no, if you want to use strict definitions, I'd guess he'd be bisexual. By definition (getting head from guys, sexzoring you).

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The correct answer: Drop the putznosher like a bad habit and get yourself a real man. Otherwise, what grief doesn't devour of you, AIDS eventually will. And then you will be saying to yourself, "Ya know? I was on this forum that I used to call home before my vagina prolapsed in a goatseque sort of way leaving it dragging on the floor behind me like a scarlet sea cucumber, and I remember this brialliant and dashingly handsome fellow who also frequented that forum said to me, his left eyebrow lifted in a way that made my juices flow, 'Drop the putznosher like a bad habit and get yourself a real man. Otherwise, what grief doesn't devour of you, AIDS eventually will. And then you will be saying to yourself, 'Ya know? I was on this forum that I used to call home before my vagina prolapsed in a goatseque sort of way leaving it dragging on the floor behind me like a scarlet sea cucumber.'

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if it happened once, it's just something that happened, a heat of the moment/opportunity thing. if it happened twice, then maybe he just happened to be in the right place again. but three times says he's actively seeking it out. and if he's as good looking as you think he is, he shouldn't be that hard up to find a loose pretty girl who'd do it for him just as easily as a guy.

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Ok, that smacked of insight into your lurid and Paulian world.

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Paint is a fag, don't listen to him.

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I agree with Hawley.

Men are weird. It doesn't always fit into a nice sexuality binary. Remember, this is a gender that has been known to occasionally have sex with livestock.

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This post deserves a point. But I don't have any. Sorry.

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Why? Cause no chick has "known" a farm animal? Please. Paint's confessions don't deserve points, they deserve therapy.

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Originally posted by Paint CHiPs
I'd be lying if I said I don't speak from a little personal experience.

...everybody's got shit in their past. ...

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