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Female masturbation...

I've heard two things related to frequent female masturbation's effect on her being able to have an orgasm with a man.
I heard that it makes it more difficult...
and that it makes it easier.
Have you heard anything on that?
What have you heard?

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Perhaps if you'd provide us with some "research" material we might be able to come to a "conclusion."

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Well, actually, I wasn't asking anyone to "research" anything. I was only asking if anyone'd "heard" anything. Hence, me asking if anyone had "heard" anything.
Obviously you haven't. That's Okay.

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I think it makes it easier, not harder. The only time it is a problem is if you prefer masturbation over sex, but that goes w/o saying, right? I think it makes you more comfortable with your body and what pleases you.

Just my opinion though, not like I have ever touched myself in that way to know.

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I'm "sorry" I couldn't be of any "help."

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Have a good day, and if you feel like subjecting your genitals to high doses of x-ray radiation I'm sure the world will kindly thank you.

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Originally posted by SocialParasite:
I'm "sorry" I couldn't be of any "help."

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Ok, I know for a "fact" that if a female maturbates, it makes it harder. If you masturbate a lot, you're not as sensitive. This can make it more difficult to achieve an orgasm with someone else.

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That is sooooo not true. And if it is then the rule doesn't apply to me.

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Well, I masturbate a lot, and it's VERY hard for someone else to make me cum. I think that my body has become used to the way I masturbate. If it's done differently, I can't cum.

The same if I use a vibrator too often. It makes it hard to orgasm without it.

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Originally posted by ChikChillin:
Well, I masturbate a lot, and it's VERY hard for someone else to make me cum.

The same if I use a vibrator too often. It makes it hard to orgasm without it.

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Hey, if *you* know what motions please you then why don't you just teach him? And playing with toys together can be a lot of fun too.

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I had a girlfriend that used to masturbate alot with a vibrator before we got together. I was always able to get her off with my mouth, but never during intercourse. She finally fessed up after awile that it just didn't feel the same way to her than when she did it herself. Though she never did tell me how she did it herself so that could have been a problem too

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i rarely have a hard time reaching an orgasm ever. the only times i have a hard time cumming is when i am taking pain meds.

and i never EVER masturbate!


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Are you drunk???

the g-spot is extremely easy to find, and VERY VERY VERY (skip a lot of verys) hard *NOT* to find it

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Originally posted by Leroy Binks:
Guys have enough time trying to find the G-spot with a map anyway.

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quote:

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Originally posted by kitten:
Hey, if *you* know what motions please you then why don't you just teach him? And playing with toys together can be a lot of fun too.

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i expect the woman to show me how she masturbates so i know how to please her if this is the case

NO EXCEPTIONS!!!

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quote:

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Originally posted by Caffeine:
Are you drunk???

the g-spot is extremely easy to find, and VERY VERY VERY (skip a lot of verys) hard *NOT* to find it

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maybe your just talented caff
i have noticed that the vast majority of men dont have a clue where to find it or what to do to it when they get there!


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the vast majority of men, myself included, have trouble GETTING THERE!
hey there purty lady, mind if i do a little research? *wink wink*

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Originally posted by Princess_Chelle:
maybe your just talented caff
i have noticed that the vast majority of men dont have a clue where to find it or what to do to it when they get there!

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I've noticed that women with a good imagination always seem to be the ones who orgasm quickly, whether alone or not. Of course most women I'm with have to imagine they're not with me and that normally does the trick...

Seriously though, it's in the mind as much as the little button under the clitoral hood...

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quote:

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Originally posted by Caffeine:
the vast majority of men, myself included, have trouble GETTING THERE!
hey there purty lady, mind if i do a little research? *wink wink*

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I know that using a vibrator on miss clit can reduce sensitivity for good if used too often.


not that I know that from personal experience mind you, read it a long time ago...

Hell if guys would learn to roll back the clitoral hood you'd have more than half the battle won right there!

but as far as the topic is concerned, Excessive masturbation can make it harder to get off, because you dont have as much 'need'.

but it can make it better, cos you know what your body likes.
oh and do not be affraid to masturbate when your man is doin' ya

my personal advice to you young'uns

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Originally posted by Postmodgirl:
Hell if guys would learn to roll back the clitoral hood you'd have more than half the battle won right there!

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quote:

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Postmodgirl scrawled:
oh and do not be affraid to masturbate when your man is doin' ya

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Originally posted by PityKitty:
NONONONONOOO!
For me, that's WAY too sensitive. Painfully sensitive. I can't take that, it's awful!
For me, it has to be a massaging alongside the clit, through the hood.
*shudders* God, i hate when guys do that.

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whatever float's yer boat

Of course it would be nice if some guys could FIND the damn clitoris