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Life is so damn messy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Last night i was thinking about how lucky i am to have healthy kids, a warm house to sleep in, and food on my table.
but at the same time, some things are so fucking fucked. most of you dont know, but last year i had to have surgery to remove an ovary due to a questionable mass. well ive got another one, on the only ovary ive got left. ive been waiting about three months, trying different medications, hormone therapies etc to help it go away on its own, well its not. tommorrow i go to see my dr to decide about surgery. im too young to loose all my girl parts.
anyway, i have also been arguing with my husband over the computer. last night he pretty much told me that he wishes i would fight with him over it, yell or something. that isnt my style. id rather just talk.
how fucked up is that?
anyway, life is messy!
at least my kids are healthy, ive got food on the table, and a roof over my head.

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I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope things turn out ok. *hugs*

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things will be fine, its just a matter of getting to the fine parts!
we have to wade through loads of shit before we find the pot of gold.

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Amen...I hear that! And I'm a firm believer that ,what you just said, is the only truth we know. Life should have been created a little easier.

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Sounds like your hubby needs an outlet for his anger.
Get him to hit a pillow or something, take up a sport, whatever.

Sorry to hear about your impending medical, need a chat? You have me on ICQ

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R?riginally posted by Dacarlo:
need a chat? You have me on ICQ

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no more icq dacarlo...but if i need ya, ill send you an email, or ill get aminal to pinch your bum

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quote:

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Originally posted by Princess_Chelle:
R?riginally posted by Dacarlo:
need a chat? You have me on ICQ

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no more icq dacarlo...but if i need ya, ill send you an email, or ill get aminal to pinch your bum

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He's always doing that. I guess my ass is just nuff pinchable

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im sorry to hear about that chelley
i hope that everything turns out for the best

maybe you should just kick him in the balls

*BIG HUG*

beaner love!

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Life is messy? That’s definitely a polite way of describing it.

I’m sorry to hear about your ‘problems’ and hope it all turns out ok.

How’s your method acting?

I reckon you should give your bloke the ‘fight’ he’s asking for. If it isn’t your style, just pretend a little. I think deep down he probably knows he’s in the wrong to ban you from chat and stuff.

Anyway, your life is fine. Bringing kids up into this world is probably the most amazing thing that life has to offer. You sound like a great mum too


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Princess_chelle,

IRC, ICQ, e-mail, message boards...they're all forms of communication with "Internet strangers" a.k.a. "Potential stalkers" I don't believe your husband would approve of. I'm afraid if you don't start curbing your defiant behavior towards your husband's wishes I'm going to have to report you to the manipulative husband marriage police.

Obey.

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I had a similar probelm when I was about 13, they had the check on my ovaries, I had doctors sticking stuff up inside me for about 3 months, until they decided it would go away on its own..... I haven't had any problems since then but I may when I get older...
*sigh*

ahh well..

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When you were about 13? That was, like, last year or so wasn't it?

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quote:

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Originally posted by Dacarlo:
He's always doing that. I guess my ass is just nuff pinchable

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quote:

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Originally posted by illu§§ion:
I had a similar probelm when I was about 13, I had doctors sticking stuff up inside me for about 3 months

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was it just me or did i read that wrong?
chelle has this problem too



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quote:

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Originally posted by The Wraith:
When you were about 13? That was, like, last year or so wasn't it?

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Humor? No. I'm curious how illegal "illegal pie" is.

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Humor? No. I'm curious how illegal "illegal pie" is.

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Life is fucked - that is all!

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quote:

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Originally posted by Rav:
Life is fucked - that is all!

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quote:

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Originally posted by J E B Stuart:
Yeah, it can be, ol' pal, but as far as I'm concerned, life damn sure beats the alternative. Amen.

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quote:

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Originally posted by Rav:
I dunno lieing there dead...no worries - it could be worse!

Ignore me, I'm having a bad couple of years!

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hey we need to talk
check your email buddy.


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quote:

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Originally posted by Rav:
I dunno lying ( ) there dead...no worries - it could be worse!

Ignore me, I'm having a bad couple of years!

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Thank you so much for correcting my spelling error CC....

*hugs* for you too

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life is the messiest thing you ever face.
as long as you provide for the ones you love, and care about, in any way you can, you cant go wrong.


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Good luck chelle, it's not something you can fight over, end result is a pissed off doctor with some scissors and well you know what goes on next. I hope everything works out al