Registered: Aug 2000
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What do you women find physically attractive in men?

After reading PMG's thread about women and what not, this question poped in my head. What do you women here find physically attractive in men?


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It's hard to sum it all up...I've never really had a preferred body type or anything like that. The guys I've dated have ranged from being an inch shorter but really muscular to tall and skinny to tall and somewhat overweight. Dated one guy who was 6'6 1/2 once. I can't deal with "too skinny" though, since I like to feel that a guy is stronger than I am.

Facially, I love big noses, large eyes, striking features. I tend to go for guys with pale skin, dark hair/dark eyes. That doesn't mean I'm restricted to that though.

Hair, I don't care about, so long as it looks good on the guy and is well-cared for.

Clothes...ahh, a little pickier here. I hate necklaces, bracelets, and big rings on guys (unless they're silver rings). Sorry guys, but you need to wear something that's at least been washed in the last week. If I'm wearing a dress, don't walk out in holey jeans and expect me to think it's all right. White socks are dorky, unless you're going running or working out.

Oh, and if you bought those pants at a head shop or at a Grateful Dead concert, they're pretty stupid. You look like a hobbit. Big Johnson shirts, co-ed naked anything shirts, and liquor advertisement shirts suck, unless covered by a flannel or sweater.

I don't expect GQ, but some effort at looking presentable is nice. I have a thing for guys who go retro back to the 20's, 30's, and 40's. I never seem to attract them though...damn.

Ok, enough for now.

About tattoos and piercings...too many piercings is ugly. Fewer than five, and not all visible. As for tattoos...chances are, if it came off the wall in the tattoo parlour, it probably sucks. I like something more personalized. Too many tattoos just looks stupid to me. I like to see some original skin.

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Don't want this to drop off the bottom. There must be more woman other than bunkum that want to comment

EDIT: I'm feeling nitpicky about my bad sentence structure today.
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^Topic

thats quite the explaitoin fron the gals, i dun think I have that nay options when it comes to women.

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er, yea...

the males I likes to look at usually have dark hair, roman noses, & nice eyes (not small and beady). I also likes long hair, preferrably on the curly side. Oh and I love beards & goatees, but I think mustaches look silly. & as far as body type, they dont have to be athletic but should not be horribly obese (tho I have dated the horribly obese before). They do need to be well groomed and bathe regurlary. Of course these are not the only guys I go fer

& clothes. He can wear whatever he likes as long as he has good taste (not overly tacky or slobish unless that is the point).

Oh & I like em intelegent & origional with a sense of humor.

& it's good if they like me too!


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Disclaimer: This is only what I consider to be ideal. I would in no way limit myself to this.

I like tall skinny guys, or tall and slightly built guys (no bodybuilders!). Being 5'1", I tend not to go for guys that are shorter than me. I'd feel like a pedophile or something. Long hair is a big turn on for me...especially if it's blonde. But long hair doesn't look right on everyone...some guys look very nice with short hair. I tend not to like shaved heads or crew cuts...I need to have something to play with. And I do not like glasses. Or facial hair.

Clothing wise, I get a little picky here. Rule number one: You must be clean. This is the one thing that is imperative. I will not date someone who doesn't shower. It's just disgusting. I like guys who wear lots of black, and yes, I do tend to find the goth/industrial (more towards the industrial) look attractive, provided they can pull it off. Anything vinyl does it for me. A little eyeliner is okay (meow!), but other than that, I don't like makeup on my men. But remember, only certain people can pull it off...if you're gonna look silly, don't do it.

But I also like guys who dress somewhat conservatively (not preppy...there is a difference).

I guess to sum it up, you just have to look pulled together and not sloppy.

Sorry if what I said makes no sense...I'm having problems with my writing this morning.

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Rabble: let me guess ... David Bowie?

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More women have to respond dammit, TOP!


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quote:

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Originally posted by MstrG:
Rabble: let me guess ... David Bowie?

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Hahahaha...no, more like Warrel Dane.

Not gothic, but he's more what I had in mind.



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not just women, EVERYBODY!


wooooo
TOOT! TOOT!
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quote:

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Originally posted by Caffeine:

not just women, EVERYBODY!


wooooo
TOOT! TOOT!

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hey now...
notice the flaming points!
they speak for themselves!

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Originally posted by Princess_Chelle:
Flame ON!!!!!!!!

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Chelle isn't going to respond to the topic at hand? Well I'm hurt.


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"The way to get over someone is to get under someone else" - The Cherry Poppin' Daddies

I stopped being sexist because bitches hate that shit.

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i like playful honest men with pretty eyes.
the taller the better, i dont like skinny guys. EYES are so important. nice strong hands, muscles! i want to feel safe, protected. He has to know how to give the look too.
the look that says, "you have ten seconds to get naked, or ill tear every last piece of clothing off you".

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"Men are all alike--except the one you've met who's different."-Mae West

"Brains are an asset to the woman in love who's smart enough to hide 'em."- also Mae West

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I spoke to soon.


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"The way to get over someone is to get under someone else" - The Cherry Poppin' Daddies

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I love a guys back.. I don't know why.. I've always had a thing for that. Broad shoulders are yummy too (not TOO broad though).. I don't like skinny guys.. medium build is good.. athletic.. not bulky.. as for height I prefer anything from 5'11"-6'2". I was never interested in guys asses until I found someone who had the perfect bum.. cute, smooth, tight, perky, grabbable.. yummm It's nice when guys are toned, but I hate when they are too muscular/bulky (esp. when their neck is wider than their head). Eyes are important to me.. i love large eyes (esp. blue), and kissable lips. Unlike the girls above, I don't like large or distinct looking noses...
Oh, teeth are another big thing for me.. clean.. straight.. must have a nice smile..
and the smell on a guy is important too.
I don't like facial hair at all.. unless it's a lil on the side.. or a couple of days of not shaving.. but I can't stand mustaches, beards, goatees etc.
As for body hair I like it smooth or minimal.. or light (if they are blond). Hair on the ass, shoulders, or a lot on the chest aren't my thing.
clothes:
If the guy has a nice chest and broad shoulders, i love ribbed vneck sweaters that hang yum
I like prep but not super prep.. sweaters and khakis are good
or something playful.. like a sloppy prep look (without looking messy if that makes sense). Khakis, Jeans, button down shirts with ribbed tees underneath (if they have the body) or normal tees, cute hats (only some guys suit hats.. but when they do.. yum)... some guys look really good w/ bleach blonde hair as well.. with a slight tan. It's a turn-on when a guy has his own style (put together well of course).
I don't like shaved heads.. I like some hair... I think when guys flip it up at the front it looks pretty cute.
Just some random turn on/offs thrown together... I guess that's good enough.. hehe

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wow!
no one likes bald men...
what a surprise!
hehe



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quote:

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Originally posted by Caffeine:
wow!
no one likes bald men...
what a surprise!
hehe

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i dont have a problem with bald men! i havent ever slept with one, but that doesnt mean that i wouldnt find one attractive!



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i can always wear my sean connery mask to conteract the baldness



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Here is why the women should love me.

I'm cute.
My eyes are awesome.
I climb rocks and lift weight...so I can bounce you up and down all night long.
I watch Steve Irwin, the Crocodile Hunter.
I drive a pick-up truck.
I don't smell.
I'm 5'9", 150 lbs.
I enjoy picnics and being naked.
I play the piano and serenade (sp.) like no other.
Did I mention I am nice?
And, I know how to clean (my mommy taught me well).
I also love cooking, once again, my mommy.
I'm not evil.
I don't hit people.
I hate nazis.
I hate Canada (joke...)
My hands are not large, so it would be very hard for me to choke you.
I want kids.
I want a dog.
I want a cat.
I want a snake.
I want lots of other creepy crawlies.
etc.

As you can see, I am your ideal man. So just live with it. I am the best, and there are no ifs, ands or buts about it.



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In retrospect, I probably should have taken the vanilla icecream. But the chocolate looked far too tempting. Little did I know at the time, it was actually little children all mushed up into a fine icey paste. Needless to say, I didn't sleep well that night, and neither did those kiddies. Well, I didn't stand for such a crime!! NO WAY. I marched back in that store and demamded an explanation. And there is was. Double chocolate icecream. Sitting there, waiting to be ingested. Oh, the taste. Oh the pure orgasmic feeling when you consume the delicious cream. Oh, how I love chocolate icecream.

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quote:

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Originally posted by Pianomahnn:

My hands are not large, so it would be very hard for me to choke you.

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The fact that you even wrote this bothers me.

By the way, you sound very full of yourself, just thought I would point that out.


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Personally, I like guys with hairy cocks. They should have so much hair that I can barely even see their dick. I actually like small dicks better, because it makes it easier for the hair to cover it up.

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I like men who have dicks with more width than length. YUMMM!!
*grrroooowwllll*


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