Registered: Aug 2000
Location: In a Blue, Blue State
Posts: 13111

It's Over, Part II

Well, the SO & I split up again. Really no suprise to me, I've been expecting something like this for the last couple of weeks. She says she's tired of men & relationships, wants to be her "own person", live with just herself and her daughter. She claimed she didn't feel free to come & go as she pleased & see her friends, yadayadayada, yet I never once told her she couldn't do as she pleased or go off on her own. She claimed I "freaked out" when a friend of hers came over one day & gave her a hug (the guy is a ex-relative of hers). She must have been hallucinating, because I didn't care at all about the hug. All the other stuff & reasons she brought up I proved her wrong about them. I think she doesn't want to admit she's found a new guy. She claims that she's spending the night tonight at her Mom's. I will call over there on a pretext to find out if she is really there or not.

Meanwhile, she is still living here until she gets a new place & finances straightened out. I now have my freedom back, and I am kinda bummed about the break-up, but not much. Mostly it's a relief to me it happened. So expect to hear from me more often on here from now on. You have been warned.

Long live TIH!

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Registered: Jul 2000
Location: zanzibar
Posts: 10477

I think its time to cut bait and look for something else. You've put a lot of effort into making it work, but its time to move on.

Good luck and welcome back.

D

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Registered: Jul 2000
Location: Minneapolis, MN
Posts: 10231

youre better off billgerat, especially considering that little trip to europe thing she pulled. that would have been the last (only) straw for me.

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Registered: Aug 2000
Location: Canada
Posts: 1726

Is her daughter old enough to know shes being uprooted?

Ive been away.. im outta touch. Sorry

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Registered: Jan 2001
Location: library
Posts: 19584

Tif called me Wednesday to announce that she is moving to Seattle. Funny how that works. She was supposed to call me again yesterday because I was too exhausted for anything on wednesday. I haven't heard a damn thing from her. I'd call myself ditched. Gee darn.

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Registered: Jul 2000
Location: seattle-ish
Posts: 11410

sorry and congratulations.
where one door closes...

good to see you again, anyway, billgerat

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