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Drunk & disorderly
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With in the past few months I've lost a few folk who are important to me.
One being my best friends wife, taken by melanoma. and the 2nd being my Mom in law, who I adored.
Each has had a prophetic impact on me.
With Trish, a 32 yo woman who fought with all she had to overcome cancer, and was taken away way too young, she taught me to fight for every breathe we have.
Godspeed sweetheart, I miss you every day.
My mother in law,well, she called and talked and told me how much she was ready to go, how life had become tiresome and it was time for her to move on.
I never thought she would die, of anyone I've known. I've known her to fight and live thru so much life threw at her. Congestive heart failure, brought back many times by the paddles. Cancer, you name it.
But last I spoke to her, she was ready..She was tired of life and happy of what she had accomplished with it. I could hear the peace in her voice.I was content then.
I tried to tell her kids and although I'm not sure they understood, they said they did.
Now, it's been a month since she left. I am still dealing with her kids and grandkids emotions as they call me to talk about it.
No problem here.
But what pisses me off and what I don't understand, is the fight over her possessions she left behind.
I find it so hard to believe some will be so shallow as to actually fight someone over a pic, ring, cup...what ever. I really don't see the relevance in it.
I do not comprehend how they can be so shallow at a time like this.
To each there own I guess.*shrugs*
I'm just so happy to know she was at peace and ready to go. I don't need a plum nickel or thing from her household to make me feel complete.
But I wonder why her kids do? It's a mystery to me.
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